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Father answers: "Resignation is true, but right is not here, I. Be decided by the meeting theory of committee member of society's affair in the future. "

Pu repairs and says bright: "The situation of " Wen Hui Daily " is better than the ' brightness '. So, also want to invite you to write an article about the coalition government. "

Father says: "I can't write. "

"Can you recommend a person? "

"I can not figure out for the moment. In a word, please want it to some persons studying of China's politics, like Wang TieYa  Such. "

Then, Pu has repaired and transmitted two pieces of news to father bright on the phone: One is to say, she sees Zhou Yang and Xia Yan in the Yugoslavian embassy. What on earth is the matter to ask them two present situations in the hall? Air of views? They two both say, still air of views now, the policy does not change. Another news is to say she has looked <<Why is this? >>Unless editorial later, phone Lu Dingyi immediately,not at all ask it continue by " put " now ? " accept " ? The answer of the land is too, we " put " ,Do not change.

Pu repairs the speech bright in the telephone, although the language is terse, mood is excited. Have ominous premonitions each other. Father understands very much, she cares about " the brightness " ,Because of "  Wen Hui " With " brightness "  The blood vessels communicate, are all newspapers of the democratic party. She cares about Lao Chu, because she links up with storing the destiny of Anping, is all editors-in-chief of the newspaper office. However, father has not realized yet: Goal that Mao Zedong attack Pu bright to build Luo Longji around, store the back oneself of Anping, political party that sent intellectuals and them of free democracy of China represented with Zhang Luo.

On June 10, father shows at the forum of the Central Committee of China Democratic League: "To my criticism, I wouldn't argue. My speech may be a a hundred per cent mistake, or is unfavorable to socialism, maybe oppose the leadship of the party, damage the serious mistake of the leadership of the party, may not may be so serious a problem too. I will never plead, do not say spoken from the purpose. In a word, should learn from everybody with some bearing work aroused in interest. "

Early in the morning on June 11, father discusses that celebrates " Guangming Daily " builds the thing of the eighth anniversary of society, drive to store home of Anping. This is located in a small Chinese courtyard house of the street of Fuchengmen. Before going, mother's niece's husband, holding office in " brightness " The writer Palestinian wave of the supplement tells father: Store home of Anping, not easy to look for. Heard from others on the opposite side of it, it was one that " revitalizing the petroleum shop " . Find the petroleum shop, can seek to his residence.

In the sitting room not big, they have begun the brief talk. It is depressed to store Anping, say to father: "I have already resigned, the thing that the society celebrates don't talk to me! "

Refuse so, it is only reticent.

In silence, father is aware the severity of the state of affair has already exceeded one's own original estimation, can't help worrying for the future of storing Anping. Father opened one's mouth at last, one: "Lao Chu, is your burden heavy? "

"Non- heavy. "

"It is all right to be non- heavy. " Father continues going on: "People meet three kinds of situations so, it is difficult. "

"Which three kinds? "

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Crossing gate Meridian Gate in front of the Forbidden City, we entered the Forbidden City. At this moment, a thing that we see 5 marble bridges. There are no lake, flowing water under the bridge. These bridges are only ornaments! Stood in front of the Hall of Supreme Harmony, we saw a block of large-scale ramps of stone carving, the palace to the Hall of Supreme Harmony all the time, both sides of the ramp are two rows of ladders. 
I can only rely on and imagine, know how the emperor sits on his sedan-chair chair passing the the ramp, and lift sedan-chair people and walk on the ladder of its both sides. Carving the emperor's dragon of symbolizing on the ramp. If someone steps on it on the ramp because of carelessness, should put out in Meridian Gate and beheaded. Now, because emperor does not cut their head, the children are running here and there going mad above. 
Whole the Palace Museum seem so false in me. Because past dynasties emperor and queen are egoistic, make so many people die here. Forbidden City give whom I leave only one bad impression, like the old era and their shade surround, gather mind in I. 
  

What meaning is this on earth, is the thinking of the letter wrong to change the figure? Song Qin stand up, stretch pieces of lazy waist long, think, have pains in the loins and back, tired than to do physical work for less than one day. Song Qin expect morning horse weariness of south face, realize horse south work hard personally finally. 
He goes to outside, the light in the corridor has been already bright, in the guards' room of criminal investigation team, only there is that that practises the small policeman and sits in front of the computer. 
See song Qin come in, practise little police have one's labour rewarded genuinely: "Brother Qin, settle that password. " 
"Settle a wind. " Song Qin go back first of him, take up and does not know whose cup it is from desk conveniently sulky, sip a cold tea, there are comfortable and many throat eyes. He think practise light police stare at computer with the utmost concentration, expression of face extremely abundant, know he surfs the Net and chats in the unit computer. 
Practising small police for just 22 years old, there is no girlfriend, wear the police uniform at ordinary times, see beautiful little girl does not gather forward well, afraid of destroying the people's police's image. Arrive this old, see others come off duty, gather up beautiful girlfriend go shopping, extremely gluttonous again inside the heart, so, surf the Net and chat and find sustenance on the spirit becoming him. 
Normally the competent private business of time on duty, but there are no people, and nothing in the team at this time, the Qin song does not just bother to speak him. Song Qin close the eyes for rest, hear, practise light police speak, ear have only keyboard Pi voice of warbling of the oriole quite a while. Song Qin can be regarded as old net worm too actually, he know in reality first with wife, then the love discussed on the net, but he likes listening to someone saying he is with wife's love online least, who says he is angry with anyone. 
Song Qin close eyes want, fall in love thing for that time with wife, the crack of the keyboard is still loud in one's ear. 
Suddenly, he " rises" Ground stand up, dimple the look of jitters. The small police of practice over there have looked up and cast a look at him, on the display that sight has got back to the front again at once. 
Small police careful, song Qin already stand to the edge of he, he just wanted to speak something, song Qin carry back collar of him, give, mention the same him directly. Small police sure song Qin go to do anything, mouth change sounds of place dish: "Why brother Qin, you yes. " 
Song Qin answer he at all, turn on a note book window, choose WuBi Chinese Input Method input law into quickly. 
When small police have gathered the head, just see that jumps out " Ma Nan " on note book Two words will come. 
--Ma Nan. The murderer's next goal is Ma Nan. 
Song Qin spelling study well in primary school in the past, rolls of tongue stick up tongue divide, nasal sound do, understand either so far behind the the previous nasal sound, so while surfing the Net and chatting with the wife, have especially studied WuBi Chinese Input Method and input the law. He was listening to young police beating the sound of the keyboard just now, suddenly jumped over those four letters in the brain. He was not sure at that time, until beating" CNFM " on the computer Four keys, the middle joins blanks, the word jumping out is unexpectedly Ma Nan. At this moment, he has no doubt in the heart - -Ma Nan is the answer to murderer's puzzle. 
Small police realize yet, people of song Qin reach door already. 
"Call brothers Qi together, the peak speed makes dash for the mountain villa of rural area. " 
Small police want, ask anything also, song Qin already soul no. 

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Neurosis and personality lack proper care

Seek Handmade Bracelets Beaded Bracelets Heart Necklace Beaded Necklaces help from most people of the psychologist's, either there is neurosis, or suffer from personality and lack proper care. They result from going wrong in sense of duty, it display symptom but on the contrary: Neurosis patient force responsibility for oneself, suffer from personality unregulated people but unwilling to bear responsibility. Conflict with external world and the contradiction, patient think neurosis wrong in oneself, but the unregulated disease patient of personality imputes the mistake to other people. Preceding the officer that get drunk, think responsibility in Okinawa, in himself; And that soldier's wife thinks, she is powerless in the face of being lonely. I have still received a lady who suffers from neurosis during working in Okinawa, the excessive loneliness makes her insufferable. She says: "I will reach armyman's family's club by car every day, hope to get to know the new friend 


The friend, but that place always lets me unset, I feel other soldier's wives are unwilling to be with me, I think I must have some questions, my personality may be too introversive. Am I unable to understand, why am I unwelcome? " This lady has thought oneself is the most unfortunate person in the world, it is totally one's own result to think to be lonely. The treatment finds, the problem lies in her IQ is higher than the ordinary person, enterprising spirit is stronger than common people too. She, other officer's wives and husband are incompatible, because compare with them, her IQ is higher, enterprising spirit is stronger. She realize, feel lonely finally, what a heavy shortcoming it is no one's own. In this way, she makes the choice suitable for oneself: She divorces husband, will get back to the campus, will raise the child while studying in the near future. She nowadays works as the editor in a magazine office, marries a successful publisher.

Neurosis patient often "  I actually could "  , " whether perhaps I it's time "  , " whether I it's time "  Chat about. No matter do anything, they think ability is inferior to others, they lack courage and distinction. Unregulated disease patient emphasizes personality"  I can't "  , " whether I impossible "  , " I can not do "  ,They lack and judge and bear the ability of responsibility independently. Treat neurosis, much easier than to treat the unregulated disease of personality, because the former insists the question should be taken charge of by oneself, but not due to others and the society. It is comparatively difficult to cure the unregulated disease patient of personality, they think obstinately the question have nothing to do with oneself, others and external world is roots of the trouble. Many people have neurosis and unregulated disease of personality concurrently, is referred to as " personality neurosis " . At some questions, they take on others' responsibility on oneself, heart is full of guilty senses; On other problems, they have pushed it. Treat personality neurosis, it is difficult that may not be certain like imagining, cure its neurosis at first, can let patient to treating the confidence of establishing, accept doctor's suggestion, correct the unwilling psychology of bearing responsibility, dispel the origin with unregulated personality.

Nearly everybody suffers from intensity different neurosises or unregulated disease of personality, so, so long as see a doctor in time and benefit the psychological health. All one's life, correct to assess one's own role, judge should what people, what responsible for life, it is our responsibility, it is the question that can't be escaped either. Assess responsibility ownership, must let us feel agony, thus produce the inclination of avoiding. Proceed from heart, weigh, the party must introspect oneself, agony and torment among them, make many people hang back. It is obviously human natural instincts to love ease and hate work. In a certain meaning, all children suffer from personality and lack proper care, will escape punishing instinctively. Siblings fight, the adult investigates, they will shirk responsibility busily without end. Many children all suffer from a certain neurosis too. They have limited comprehension, will regard the suffering born as serving you right. Lack the child that cares about and feel unworthy, think oneself not lovely enough, the shortcoming is greater than the advantage, they will never expect, this is that an origin lacks love and treatment to parents. They are unable to be favored by opposite sex, or barely satisfactory in movement, suspect without exception too that has serious ability defects oneself. They are difficult to realize, even if the development is slow, intelligence is mediocre, they are still normal persons. Everybody needs experience for many years, lets intelligence be ripe constantly, can know oneself correctly, evaluate oneself and responsibility which others should bear objectively.

With children's growth, parents can offer help at any time. But if parents escape responsibility, even remind children: The problem is they suffer for one's act, but not do parents' responsibility. It will be difficult to meet demands of child. Certainly, opportunity educated to hold difficult, this for a long time but hard work, parents need to keep sensitive, understand the child's need, invest the time and energy, even bear the agony, parents will pay more love, will bear one's own responsibility.

Besides scarce and sensitive or ignore and educate, a lot of parents have other shortcomings. Neurosis patient with slight intensity, can fulfil the duties of parents, unless they have too big working pressure, so that is unable to fulfil for people parents' duty; Personality person who lack proper care incompetent parents mostly, but unconsciously I. The psychological educational circles have a kind of generally acknowledged statement: "The neurosis patient lets oneself be living and gets the agony, but the persons who lack proper care of personality let others live and get the agony. " That is to say, the neurosis patient takes on responsibility to oneself, make dog-tiredly; Personality but unregulated disease patient shift the blame someone else, the ones that stood in the breach are its children. They default parents' responsibility, do not give children love and care needed. The child's moral integrity or study goes wrong, they will never make a self-criticism, but impute to the education system, or complain and criticize other children, regarded as them "  Bring badly " One's own child. It is obviously inclined to escape responsibility to put the blame on sb. else. Parents often criticize children: "You children, are all driving me crazy! " " brat-packer you, I can with my father (mum) of you Get married! " "Your mother's neurasthenia, are all what you cause! " "If not in order to raise and look after you, I actually could finish college smoothly, do some great real undertakings. " They have offered models for the fact that the child will escape responsibility in the future, return such information to the child: "My unfortunately, my psychology of marriage is unhealthy, my life is extremely frustrated, it is totally your responsibility. " The child is unable to understand how unreasonable this kind of criticism is, impute responsibility to oneself, therefore has become the neurosis patient. So, parents have diagonosis of disorder of personality, the child will present the unregulated disease of personality or neurosis by oneself, the elder's question influences the future generation to grow up, this kind of situation is customary, offer as a gift and suffer from infinitely.

Suffer from to the parents with unregulated personality, is the model of the reverse side for whom the child established. Their condition, will influence the marriage, friend-making and undertaking too. They are unwilling to bear one's own responsibility, cause the question in life to be very heavy. Have said, should step forward bravely in the face of the question, otherwise they will exist forever in the front, the unregulated disease patient of personality totally deviates from this kind of method, can't help pushing responsibility to spouse, child, friend, parents, superior, or push away for other abstract things - --Bring " bad influence " Organization such as school, government, racial discrimination, sexism, social system, tendency of the day,etc., but the question exists all the time. When they shirk responsibility, may feel comfortable and delighted, but intelligence is unable to be ripe, often become the burdens of collective, the society. People 


One dose of unregulated diseases patient transfers agony to collective and the society on one's body, lets people remember the sixties of last century, Eldridge in the gram Buddha '  Afro-American's writer)  A sentence of popular words: "You can't solve the problem, you will become the problem  Mobile POS|Contactless POS|Fingerprint POS|Credit Card Terminal|Point of Sale. " In fact, this sentence was spoken to all people. 

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How to break out of the encirclement? (1)  
Reduce Handmade Bracelets Beaded Bracelets Heart Necklace Beaded Necklaces pressure, work not getting twice the result with half the effort in an all-round way '  Five) 
What brave 36 years old did the satisfying 38 years old of moustache of dictorial supervisor of researcher of Chinese Academy of Sciences, Professor, dictorial supervisor of Zhejiang University, successively died in youth, in a slice of topic that has caused intellectuals to overwork while sighing with regret very much. Talk about the large quantities of persons that worked to death in the work position like this, the general statement is, they " will only work " ,"Will not have a rest. " 
Seem absolutely true. 
However, there are associate professors of more professors and personnel tiredly when can't be propped up busy of various career in the society to see, we want to ask: Will none of them have a rest? 
Sleep, travel, the massage of sole, tennis, do exercises, who can not? 
If someone advises them to have a rest, they often go back with a word: Have no time. 
In fact, they " will not have a rest " ,Do not have surplus energy to have a rest. 
They are pressed by the work fully. 
At this moment, let them put down the work to have a rest, it is very difficult to accomplish. 
Therefore, we can only propose strange and new, should be good at reducing pressure and working getting twice the result with half the effort in an all-round way. 
Work like this, have time have a rest, could become, have a successful career healthy people again. 
A whole set of survives here the ability is mastered. 
Might as well tell a little story here. 
A young associate professor once discussed with me what was the most difficult with great emphasis. He says, want to overcome hopeless case and live on after getting hopeless case, it is very difficult; Driven to the last ditch and want to bring about a complete turnabout, it is very difficult; Enterprises are close to wanting to come back to life bankrupt, it is very difficult; But that these are difficult to be difficult but he faces now difficult. What his is difficult that I ask? He look, say he want in modern to survive living pieces of success under the pressure exhaustedly, pure because too tired, unable to do what one wishes, and in distress to live out, the body goes from bad to worse too. 
He says again, this dead office sees simply but has besieged hundreds and thousands of people, everyone has no idea. Is not this the most difficult? 
Treating such a question, you tell him generally want to will have a rest, it is of no use. According to he himself, he simplify so as to simplify any more various worldly wisdom of dinner parties, unnecessary activities already. A busy one of his is the decent thing. 
I am from looking into him "  Busy with the hard account "  At the beginning. 
He is very surprised "  Busy with the hard account "  Statement. 
I ask him what does it busy with? He said he would have a class. As the associate professor of the university, this is right and proper naturally. What is the second busy with? Bring a graduate student, this is blameless too. What is the third busy with? Write the academic work, this seems it is still essential and essential work. What is the fourth busy with? The scientific research project runs. For person teaching in a university, it is important to concern again in this. Down, there are many things finding him busy: The construction of the academic exchange centre will run, will work as a advisor in some companies, still act as the editorial member in some academic periodicals, it is a newspaper that writes the special column, even " makes excessive money by giving performance " on two-day weekend ,Do training for some big companies, it is for earning some money completely - -He explains slightly a bit too shily. 
Should say all these do not play through life and have no serious ambition, is busy with the decent thing. Want to one stage live grand young people say in life, no matter invent and create the academic position, or earn money and buy house to buy the car, all in reason. 
I say to him all thing rows that make you line up, the most important one ranks the first, the order comes down, 23456. He has thought, picks up pens. First, have a class, take the graduate student two times, and so on. The last, " make excessive money by giving performance " on two-day weekend . 
I say, delete the last. Does he ask keeping watch on me, have walked in this? I say, delete this first, if is still unable to do what one wishes, and then delete item 2 counted backwards. He says, you are a location elimination system of the end. I say, Yes. 
He has frowned: Is it so simple? I say: It is so simple. 
The associate professor hesitates, half believe, half doubt in look. 
I say, say your hesitation out bluntly. 
He has thought, has said bluntly. First, he does not really believe very much his problem can be solved by the simple scheme like this. Second, these projects which he does now, no matter as the advisor, open the special column, make excessive money by giving performance, it is in process. If cut off and does not do, may lose the chance too late for regretsly. I tell him, must consider from the overall situation to do something, have cost incomes to check and calculate the concept. How many universities there are young and middle-aged professors to die in youth in Beijing, your now heart blood pressure has already gone wrong, really follow in a tragic one's footsteps is it possible that? 
The young people study a lot of about life enlightening remarks, for the moment inconceivable simple method can retrieve a hopeless situation so. However, give up this and have no other way out, have to try like this. 
As a result, having left out one, he feels one's own state slightly takes a favorable turn. 
It is deleted first more that I advise him, he hesitates to be turned down the special column of newspapers and periodicals also. 
As a result, the situation is clear, in the words of his, the meaning of dispelling the clouds and seeing the sun a bit, the whole physical and psychological state is enlivened. Having done one or two items fewer in less important thing, main thing is done than the past instead. Because there is rich energy, the head melon is flexible, it is not big that the scientific research project runs to originally hope, run now. 
A lot of friend perhaps like this young associate professor, in serious position incomplete first most one's own high IQ, the quilt is eager for quick success "  Greedy " Have hoodwinked. The person of the high IQ often makes the elementary mistake, the ones that had doing in life greatly sustained losses in business and buying and selling. 
The modern's existence question is at work at first. 
Only work thing of saying sometimes, problem to solve work, they can be liberated. 
The Mobile POS|Contactless POS|Fingerprint POS|Credit Card Terminal|Point of Sale method to solve working problem is numerous, " clear up and busy with the hard account " Just all laws.