How to break out of the encirclement (go back »)
March 4 2009, 2:03 AM
How to break out of the encirclement? (1)
Reduce
What brave 36 years old did the satisfying 38 years old of moustache of dictorial supervisor of researcher of Chinese Academy of Sciences, Professor, dictorial supervisor of Zhejiang University, successively died in youth, in a slice of topic that has caused intellectuals to overwork while sighing with regret very much. Talk about the large quantities of persons that worked to death in the work position like this, the general statement is, they " will only work " ,"Will not have a rest. "
Seem absolutely true.
However, there are associate professors of more professors and personnel tiredly when can't be propped up busy of various career in the society to see, we want to ask: Will none of them have a rest?
Sleep, travel, the massage of sole, tennis, do exercises, who can not?
If someone advises them to have a rest, they often go back with a word: Have no time.
In fact, they " will not have a rest " ,Do not have surplus energy to have a rest.
They are pressed by the work fully.
At this moment, let them put down the work to have a rest, it is very difficult to accomplish.
Therefore, we can only propose strange and new, should be good at reducing pressure and working getting twice the result with half the effort in an all-round way.
Work like this, have time have a rest, could become, have a successful career healthy people again.
A whole set of survives here the ability is mastered.
Might as well tell a little story here.
A young associate professor once discussed with me what was the most difficult with great emphasis. He says, want to overcome hopeless case and live on after getting hopeless case, it is very difficult; Driven to the last ditch and want to bring about a complete turnabout, it is very difficult; Enterprises are close to wanting to come back to life bankrupt, it is very difficult; But that these are difficult to be difficult but he faces now difficult. What his is difficult that I ask? He look, say he want in modern to survive living pieces of success under the pressure exhaustedly, pure because too tired, unable to do what one wishes, and in distress to live out, the body goes from bad to worse too.
He says again, this dead office sees simply but has besieged hundreds and thousands of people, everyone has no idea. Is not this the most difficult?
Treating such a question, you tell him generally want to will have a rest, it is of no use. According to he himself, he simplify so as to simplify any more various worldly wisdom of dinner parties, unnecessary activities already. A busy one of his is the decent thing.
I am from looking into him " Busy with the hard account " At the beginning.
He is very surprised " Busy with the hard account " Statement.
I ask him what does it busy with? He said he would have a class. As the associate professor of the university, this is right and proper naturally. What is the second busy with? Bring a graduate student, this is blameless too. What is the third busy with? Write the academic work, this seems it is still essential and essential work. What is the fourth busy with? The scientific research project runs. For person teaching in a university, it is important to concern again in this. Down, there are many things finding him busy: The construction of the academic exchange centre will run, will work as a advisor in some companies, still act as the editorial member in some academic periodicals, it is a newspaper that writes the special column, even " makes excessive money by giving performance " on two-day weekend ,Do training for some big companies, it is for earning some money completely - -He explains slightly a bit too shily.
Should say all these do not play through life and have no serious ambition, is busy with the decent thing. Want to one stage live grand young people say in life, no matter invent and create the academic position, or earn money and buy house to buy the car, all in reason.
I say to him all thing rows that make you line up, the most important one ranks the first, the order comes down, 23456. He has thought, picks up pens. First, have a class, take the graduate student two times, and so on. The last, " make excessive money by giving performance " on two-day weekend .
I say, delete the last. Does he ask keeping watch on me, have walked in this? I say, delete this first, if is still unable to do what one wishes, and then delete item 2 counted backwards. He says, you are a location elimination system of the end. I say, Yes.
He has frowned: Is it so simple? I say: It is so simple.
The associate professor hesitates, half believe, half doubt in look.
I say, say your hesitation out bluntly.
He has thought, has said bluntly. First, he does not really believe very much his problem can be solved by the simple scheme like this. Second, these projects which he does now, no matter as the advisor, open the special column, make excessive money by giving performance, it is in process. If cut off and does not do, may lose the chance too late for regretsly. I tell him, must consider from the overall situation to do something, have cost incomes to check and calculate the concept. How many universities there are young and middle-aged professors to die in youth in Beijing, your now heart blood pressure has already gone wrong, really follow in a tragic one's footsteps is it possible that?
The young people study a lot of about life enlightening remarks, for the moment inconceivable simple method can retrieve a hopeless situation so. However, give up this and have no other way out, have to try like this.
As a result, having left out one, he feels one's own state slightly takes a favorable turn.
It is deleted first more that I advise him, he hesitates to be turned down the special column of newspapers and periodicals also.
As a result, the situation is clear, in the words of his, the meaning of dispelling the clouds and seeing the sun a bit, the whole physical and psychological state is enlivened. Having done one or two items fewer in less important thing, main thing is done than the past instead. Because there is rich energy, the head melon is flexible, it is not big that the scientific research project runs to originally hope, run now.
A lot of friend perhaps like this young associate professor, in serious position incomplete first most one's own high IQ, the quilt is eager for quick success " Greedy " Have hoodwinked. The person of the high IQ often makes the elementary mistake, the ones that had doing in life greatly sustained losses in business and buying and selling.
The modern's existence question is at work at first.
Only work thing of saying sometimes, problem to solve work, they can be liberated.
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